Sunday, February 13, 2022

आजकाल भ्यालेन्टाइन लाग्यो रे !




माया गर्ने हरुको आजभोलि

खुब चहल पहल बढ्यो रे 

बजारमा गुलाबको भाउ पनि बढ्यो रे 

टेड्डी अनि चक्लेट पनि 

धेरै बिक्यो रे 

किनकि आजकल भ्यालेन्टाइन लाग्यो रे।  

 

मायाको नाउँमा ब्यापार पनि बढ्यो रे 

कसम खाने हरु त कत्ति हुन् कत्ति रे 

उता ब्यापार पनि चंग छ रे 

यता कसम पनि दङ्ग छ रे 

पेट्रोल, डिजेलको भाउ मात्र  मात्र हैन 

मायालु को भाउ पनि बढ्दै छ रे 

किनकि आजकल भ्यालेन्टाइन लाग्यो रे। 

 

फेसबुकइन्स्टाग्राम र स्नाप्च्याटमा 

फोटो पनि बढ्यो रे 

धेरैको माया पनि बढ्यो रे 

उता पार्कतिर भने 

बदाम, सुन्तला र चक्लेटको खोस्टा पनि बढ्यो रे 

जोडीहरुको सङ्ख्या त बढेको बढै छ रे 

किनकि आजकल भ्यालेन्टाइन लाग्यो रे। 

 

यता म भने यी सब कुरा हेरेको हेरै छु 

फेसबुक र इन्स्टाग्राम मा लाइक ठोकेको ठोकै छु 

मायाको कविता र गजल लेखेको लेखै छु 

सबैको दाजुभाई बनेको बनै छु 

तर पनि 

माया गर्ने मायालुलाई खोजेको खोजै छु। 

 



Mental Health Scenario in Nepal

 

Generally, the term Health triggered us as physically fit and free from disease condition. But do you think only the physical health reflects your overall health? What about your emotions, feelings, mood, thoughts ? Yes, in this article I am going to talk about our mental health and its scenario in context of Nepal.

Mental health is an important component of health that concerns about your feelings, mood, thoughts and emotions. It deals with how we feel, think and act. You should be mentally stable and fit in order to maintain your whole body healthy. Without mental health there is no true physical health.  WHO stresses the mental health as “A state of well-being in which every individual realizes his or her own potential, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make A contribution to her or his community”.

In Nepalese context there are still mental health related myths, stigmas and taboos that are directly affecting the individual’s growths, personalities and thoughts. “The children do not face the mental health problems”, “Mental problem is a form of intellectual disability or brain damage (Dimag Khuskiyo), “People with mental problem are dangerous and violent” are the common myths that can be found in Nepalese societies. And these myths directly affecting those people who has a mental problem and that ultimately leading to the serious problems such as depression and suicide. Are there stigmas has scientific proof? Why our society is still believing these nonsense things?  If not, why are we staying silently then? These myths should be broken. For this now we have to speak about mental health, we should talk about it, we should spread the awareness about mental health and we should listen the voice of those peoples who are suffering from mental problems.

In other hand, the content of mental health is not included in the formal educational curriculum for the school students too. The organization working regarding the mental health is also found to be less. That also reflects the scenario of mental health in Nepal. We can see the how the students are going through the mental health problems especially stress and anxiety. According to Manandhar (2019) the prevalence of stress among the undergraduate students is 75%. The major stressors were Academic related stressor, project work, group activities related, teaching and learning related and social related stressors. And these stressors are directly influences in their performance matrix, thoughts and growths. Are their such problems are addressing by teachers and parents? There should be mentally healthy environment in the school, college, home and community and those mental health problem should be considered by teachers and parents in order to encourage students’ performance, skills, positive actions, thoughts and growth. 

In developing countries like Nepal poverty also becomes one of the main stressor among the peoples. The low economic status always makes them stressed and tensioned. So in the context of Nepal the mental health should be focused more.

Reference:

Manandhar, SA (2019). Stressors and the levels of stress among the undergraduate in Kathmandu. Nepal Medical College Journal 21 (1), 21-25.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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